Gals
Summer 2005

Features
Integrity

Your Body: The Liver

True Ministry

Don’t Neglect Your Gift

Searching for Your Self-Worth


Guys
From the Editor

A Hunger To Serve

M.A.P.? What M.A.P.? What is that?

Semper Fidelis: Always Faithful

How to Be A Gentleman

A Book Review

How to be a Christian Father

Servants and Guards

Husband: The High Calling of God


Gals
From the Editor

Fellowship of Service

Who, Me? Serve?

Mentoring

The Role of Christian Women in Paul’s Day

Elizabeth: A Woman of Faith

Shopping for Modesty in Egypt



Fellowship of Service
By Noni McVey

How does today’s Christian woman serve her church and community? The opportunities open to women for ministry are unlimited. But first, every woman should be encouraged to find her place of ministry within the body of Christ and then be allowed to practice in the fellowship of service. But where does one begin?
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Christ never made a woman to be one of His 12 disciples, He did not tell a woman to “feed my sheep” and He did not choose a woman to be an apostle. Yet, women played a very important role in supporting Christ’s ministry and in the New Testament church. Jesus’ very attitude toward women supports the fact that God has a place and a plan for every woman in His Kingdom. Jesus elevated women from degradation and servitude to fellowship of service.

In Matthew 26:1-13 and John 12:1-3 we read about Mary anointing Jesus’ feet with a pint of expensive perfume and then wiping His feet with her hair. The fragrance filled the entire home. The disciples were all indignant about Mary’s action. They believed it would have been better to sell the perfume and give the money to the poor. Note that Jesus did not scold Mary for what she had done, “I tell you the truth, wherever this gospel is preached in all the world, what this woman has done will be told and people will remember her.” Mary was a woman who was not afraid of expressing her love for Jesus. She was not consumed with what the disciples would think and she was determined to seek the will and heart of her Lord. Jesus found her extravagant act of adoration a beautiful thing.

It is apparent Paul understood the message Jesus gave and the equality of women is affirmed before God when Paul wrote in Galatians 3:28, “There is neither Jew nor Greek, there is neither bond nor free, there is neither male nor female: for you are all one in Christ Jesus.”

Women are excluded from the authoritative teaching role of pastor or elder (I Timothy 2:11-12; I Corinthians 14:34) but, women are included as “fellow workers” in Romans 16:3, 6 and 12.

Priscilla was a servant, leader and a team player. She moved with her husband, Aquila, between Rome to Corinth to Ephesus and back again. At each location Priscilla served all those she came in contact with. Priscilla was hospitable, kind and with great joy spread the gospel and nurtured the church.

Priscilla and Aquila, with quiet wisdom, instructed the preacher Apollo’s from Alexandria who had not heard about Jesus’ life, crucifixion, resurrection or the Holy Spirit. They were friends to Paul and their home was a place of refuge for him. Many believers came to Priscilla’s home, which was a warm and safe place, to be trained and educated in the truth. Priscilla was a spiritually mature woman. She and her husband were a team that played a vital role in building the early church.


Where to Begin

  1. Pray daily. Go to God in prayer and ask Him to show you the gift(s) He has given. Maybe you know who you are and what your talents are. Ask Him in prayer to open the doors and show you how to use those talents and gifts. Ask Him to help you be alert to the opportunities to serve Him.
  2. Study the Word of God. If your desire is to be blessed and used by God, then you will seek to find time to spend in the Scriptures. The foundation to sustained growth in Christian living and discernment is found in regular and serious Bible Study. “Blessed is the man that walks not in the counsel of the ungodly, nor stands in the way of sinners, nor sits in the seat of the scornful. But his delight is in the law of the Lord; and in his law does he meditate day and night” (Psalm 1:1-2).
  3. Ask your spouse or a good friend what gifts he/she you possess. Sometimes others see your gifts better than you do.
  4. Talk to your minister about where he sees opportunities for you to serve in the church. spiritual gifts in action

Your gift(s) have been identified, now how do you put them into use?

  1. Begin by remembering your gifts were given to you by God—He owns the gift. God will empower you with His Holy Spirit to serve and minister beyond what you could ever imagine doing. It is His strength and power, not your strength. Your ministry should be a reflection of His splendor not your ability.
  2. Be committed to using your gift(s) for God’s service and not for your own personal satisfaction or success. God gives us gifts and abilities so we can serve others, as well as give a part of ourselves to Him.
  3. Evaluate what your motive is. It should never be just to get things done, but rather to help others know the Gospel of Jesus Christ and to have a part in building His church.

Places to Serve

Women are not in competition with other ministries or men. Wherever God calls a woman to serve, this is her ministry. Every woman can pray, evangelize, teach, counsel, and serve. Too many Christian women today believe they are only serving if the service is taking place in their local church. Ministry to others is not exclusive to church members. True ministry is motivated by a loving concern for people in all walks of life. Your neighbors and your community are all in need of Christian service.

Below is a small list of suggestions that may help you get started in finding your fellowship of service.

Spritual Gift Service
Leadership Help with congregational activities or assist in planning Infuse at the Feast of Tabernacles.
Evangelism Share the gospel message with family and friends.
Prayer Form a women’s prayer group. Women ministering through praying together.
Writing Write articles for Infuse (see page 02), Sabbath School lessons for the Feast of Tabernacles and church website, or articles for the SKY Newsletter.
Teaching Teach Sabbath School at weekly church services or at the Feast of Tabernacles. Hold women’s Bible Studies conducted by and for women.
Cooking Teach meal preparation to younger women.
Listening/Counseling Minister to victims of abuse.
Artistic Create artwork for Infuse or activity pages for Sabbath School lessons.
Creative Make blankets for charities. Create craft projects for Sabbath School lessons.
Musician/Singer Provide music at church and/or convalescent hospitals.
Computer Savvy Assist with updates and content for your church’s website.
Service Serve in a soup kitchen, food pantry or a clothing bank. Be ready to help in times of disaster. Minister to men and women in the military through letters and care packages.


God has a plan and purpose for every woman and it is not to sit and be silent, but rather to be participating in the fellowship of service. There is no small job in the ministry of loving and serving one another. “Each one should use whatever gift he has received to serve others, faithfully administering God’s grace in its various forms” (1 Peter 4:10).

It is your responsibility as a Christian woman to find out what your God given gifts are and then put them into use to serve others. i